Deciding what is your “Big Day” going to look like is certainly not easy. There are so many options, new great ideas and trends in how a wedding can be.
One suggestion that we have for you is to take an hour or so to jot down a list of your ideal wedding elements, than rank them from most important ones to least. If your list consists of 75 items, make peace with the fact that can accomplish only the first 25 and don’t even build the others in your timeline. Often we (together with your hints) can create an extraordinary wedding with easy -to-pull extras, like a signature cocktail or a great sax player for the first dance.
One other important recommendation we have for you is to have a talk with your future husband about his hopes and dreams for the day. Make sure he is on the same page about the overall feel of the event before you begin the ticking off your checklist. You definitely don’t want to spend your entire engagement arguing!